Relationship Coaching

  • Newly Single and want to move on to a new relationship?
  • How to iron out conflicts in your relationship.
  • Making sense of Divorce & Separation
  • One and one makes three – relationships after children

People often come because basic needs aren’t being met, or it suddenly dawns on you that you’ve been repeating a particular relationship pattern for years.

A trigger can be anything from a family event, or a significant event such as bereavement of a close family member, an affair or breakdown of the relationship where the other person has walked out, maybe leaving you for someone else.

Perhaps you’re experiencing dissatisfaction, lies, cover up.  Or maybe you want *him* to change, or if only *she* would understand you, then all will be well.

The very fact that you’re reading this illustrates YOUR desire for positive change.  Often in relationships we will project how we feel onto the other person, expecting them to understand exactly where we are with them, but the fact is that they are not us and they cannot read our minds.

It’s possible to get completely bogged down and then confused as to why you don’t feel happy, which is why a fresh perspective outside of your relationship has incredible value.  Someone who is on your “relationship’s side” yet maintains non-judgemental support for both of you.

Download this worksheet to see if you are enacting any of these “four horsemen” (coined by John Gottman).

Or do you believe you are living with someone who is on the Autistic Spectrum Disorder?  See here for an excellent article written by Maxine Aston.

Book a free telephone consultation me and help you move into a brighter future!